Saturday, March 24, 2012

We All Want Love

Conversation between two good friends one is single and one is married....

Single friend: ughhh I'm tired of being single I'm ready for a relationship but nothing goes the way I plan for it to go.

Married friend: oooh don't worry it will happen for you, just be patient and wait. It will come when you least expect it to.

We all know someone who has had this conversation and the single person ALWAYS says in their mind...."SHUT THE HELL UP!!!!"

Seriously our married friends sometimes forget how it feels to be single.  Look we (single people) know you (married and all happy people) are trying to help but honestly that doesn't help at all it does nothing but upset us single people even more. Why, because 9 times out of 10 we have been patient, and its not a recent development that we are lonely and want to be in a relationship. There is a good chance we have been feeling this way for a while, but haven't said anything because of that response right there! It is understandable that our married friend would try and help her single friend, but there is NOTHING that can be said to help that us single people feel better about our situation. There is not a right or comforting answer that can be given to someone who feels lonely and just wants to be loved.

It is hard being single! No one likes the feeling of emptiness or wanting to be with someone. No one enjoys the feeling of wanting something so bad but not being able to have it, its enough to drive a person crazy. Who doesn't want to have someone to call their own, who doesn't want to feel that everyday when they wake up they are on someone else's mind.

Just like the Rihanna song says....

We all want someone there to hold
We just want somebody
We all wanna be somebody’s one and only
We all wanna be warm when it’s cold
Yeah yeah yeah

No one wants to be left scared and lonely
We all, we all, we all, we all

We all want the same thing
We all, we all, we all, we all
We all want the same thing
We all, we all, we all, we all
We all want the same thing
Everybody wants something gotta want something
Yeah yeah we all want love

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