Two Different Chapters

Received a message via facebook from a friend with a question...
"What happened to our friendship, how come we don't hang out like we used to"

The simple answer to that question was: "we are in two different chapters in our lives right now and honestly I'm unable to handle your negative energy anymore."

Yes it was a pretty harsh answer however it was the truth and I refuse to give anything but the truth. We were childhood friends but as we got older we just grew apart. She always wanted something from someone but when anyone needed her...she was no where to be found or no help at all. We grew up and went our separate ways I was in school and she was at home complaing about her baby daddy we no longer had anything in common. Don't get me wrong, most of my friends have kids and I love them babies like they are flesh and blood but no one wants to hear negative talk all the time with NOTHING positive coming out of their mouth EVER!!! It is sad that the two of us are no longer close, but a friendship can not be forced and should be easy and feel like family..especially if they are a close friend. A friendship should not stress you out or make you feel like you have to walk on egg shells whenever you are around them. Friends are supposed to be able to be completey honest with one another and feel like they can say what is on their heart without feeling like the other person is going to get upset..they may not like what you said but because they are your friend they will listen and take note.

There's a quote that says:
"Some people are life sucking, energy-draining, negative bags of annoying hell...kindly avoid them!"

Communication between girlfriends

Had a conversation with a co-worker today about her and her friend. She said that she was looking on facebook and her friend had made a post that stated that she felt she always gave and gave to her friend but never received anything in return. That her friend would ask her to do things and she'd say yes but then later tell her she couldn't do it and that her friend would always come over to her house but she hardly when to her friends house. She was really troubled by this because she felt like the facebook post was about her even thought her husband tried to tell her that it wasn't.

We talked or about 30 minutes on the subject and I told her the worst thing that could happen between friends is lack of communication. Sometimes we get so comfortable in our friendships that we forget that to talk to one another when we have an issue. Instead of talking to post underlining message via facebook or twitter...people talk to each other don't post to facebook and twitter because that can just cause huge problems because things get taken out of context its just best to talk about it. My co-workers frustration this morning could have been avoided if her friend would have just called her up and talked to her about it. Because now it makes for a weird conversation between the two of them when my co-worker calls her to see what is going on. Sometimes it's hard to have those heart to heart talks with friends because you really value their friendship and don't want to upset them. But remember a truth friend will listen and probably argue but will be open to what you have to say and the two of you will move forward!
*Never regret saying what's on you heart. Because even if its not what they want to hear at least you had the strength to say it*

Goooooood Morning!!! I'm not sure what the weather looks like where you all are at but where I am it is just down right beautiful outside!!! I just wanted to share a little something with you...

A day without laughter is a day wasted!!
I'm not sure what may have you down, but take a minute to step back and just smile, look up a funnying youtube video anything to try and put yourself in a better mood! Life is way to short to spend it upset all the time. Just smile!! :)

In addition to advice I will also be posting quotes that I think many people need to read and try to add to their life...



Everyone in life wants to be happy and they are always in search for what makes them happy. Here are 5 roles that everyone should live by:
1.) Free your heart from hatred
2.) Free your mind from worries
3.) Live simply
4.) Give more to others
5.) Expect less

Remember that the happieness of your life all depends on the quality of your thoughts...stay positive!!

Welcome

Hi everyone! I just want to welcome you to my blog! I have always been the person that all my friends come to for some type of advice, whethers its having to do with family, relationship anything. I really enjoy giving the advice. I have a love of really helping people. So I decided to open myself up to everyone who feels they need some advice sometimes. Feel free to ask anything I'm not shy what so ever! Also feel free to email me with anything you'd like my advice on my.two.cents05@gmail.com You can think of me like the song say "lean on me when your not strong and I'll be your friend I'll help you carry on!"